Julie Wuth wrote a wonderful column and a Q & A – and tips – with me about Overwhelmed for The News-Gazette: “So what does Schulte advise? Burn the to-do list. You don’t really need it. “I had this ‘if-then’ bargain — if I get through all this and this and this and this, then I can sit down and read a book or enjoy myself. I never got to the end of that to-do list,” she said, again seeing into my soul. Just last week I found myself avoiding or postponing several fun activities — a birthday party, a brunch with friends, an art fair my daughter would love — because I felt too overwhelmed by several personal things hanging over my head. If I could just get those done…. “I think you get so busy in that panicky, hyper-vigilant, go-go state that you don’t have a moment to stop and think; maybe my to-do list is crazy,” she said.”